I love women of all shapes and sizes, have a personal preference and attraction to certain physiques, but publicly try to complement all body types when appropriate.
I also think it’s easier to catch the negativity when it’s someone else doing it, or when it’s written down, than when I do it myself. I have been so caught up sometimes in my world, and I get so excited, that sometimes I slip. Thankfully, I have asked everyone I work with, and am beginning to ask my friends, that if something I do or say bothers them, to tell me immediately and be honest and express their feelings.
In the past week, I’ve had a rough week, but the lessons I’m taking with me are getting me closer to the Light. I’ve had a handful of talks and emails with dear friends who tell me what I’ve said hurts, though at the time I say it, I don’t think anything of it. With their openness, I am becoming more conscious of others’ feelings, needs and wants and I’m becoming a better person for it. I have lots to learn.
Now if I can be quicker about responding to someone when they hurt my feelings, I’ll be happier. And if ALL WOMEN love other women for being human, I'd be ecstatic!